As a 23-year-old, I don’t like making decisions except when it’s about picking an outfit

Other days, I start with a brilliant outfit already built in my mind. This is when I take too much time to prepare myself, trying to understand why reality will not correspond to my imagination. I do not know why this gap exists, but in two years, I will have a fully developed prefrontal cortex. Maybe my mood cards do not collapse in front of a mirror.

I cross this masquerade until I feel completely and entirely as Me, Or at least, who I am that day. It is only when I reach this feeling of MeAs the outfit is an extension of myself, which I feel confident. I firmly believe that confidence is what gives a look. Well, confidence and the same three necklaces that I have been wearing since the age of 19.

Preparing may seem messy and chaotic (re: the pile of clothes on the floor of my room), but there is a method to my madness. He will again choose an outfit, hair, makeup, accessories and hair (depending on humidity). It’s fun, yes, but it is also a space where I am entirely in control, where the decisions that I make will affect anyone else. I decide alone and I harvest the advantages alone. These may not be very high issues, but days are based on each other, as is confidence.

He will come a moment when I will not count on my clothes to give me this feeling of identity, of deposit. I will find it in me and choosing an outfit will not be much more than a daily routine. But until then, please don’t ask me to choose a restaurant.

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