Comedians Atul Khatri and Kiran Deol discuss why the debrief is the ultimate love language between friends

ATUL KHATRI: My wife is the same. When she tells me a story, she likes to go everywhere. If she talks about a party, she will say: “You know, I met this lady, do you remember her husband? She has two children, one of them studies in Stanford.” I must continue to remind him of returning to history. As an actor, I learned to include essential details in an anecdote. I continue to ask him, “What is the punch?” When does the punch come? If you dined, have you broken a table? Has anyone fled without paying the bill? ” But there are no punches: just a premise after another.

KD: When I get out with my friends, I want to hear it as if I were there. Give me all the details so I feel like I am next to you.

AK: My male friends and I are more curly and to the point. To be honest, even if I wanted to share more details with them, I don’t think they are interested.

KD: It’s the same with my male friends. Recently, one of them had a surprise party launched for him. I said to him, “Tell me everything about it.” He said, “It was crazy, I’m just going to send you photos and you can look at them.” I was so confused.

AK: On the other hand, I sometimes saw guys discuss one in a cricket match for hours. How the ball was sworn, if the terrain was wet – they can continue over and over again.

KD: Maybe people care for ball games so much because they need this victory. Men are discouraged to express anything other than anger, this is how they channel all their anxiety or the fact that their fathers have not demonstrated love. It is something certain in which they can put all their energy. This allows them to escape their own lives. Women, on the other hand, encourage each other to be vulnerable and to feel their feelings.

AK: As a man, I can never show my weak side while speaking to other men. It is not easy to be vulnerable or admit our mistakes. Recently, an influencer friend was scammed, and when he spoke about it publicly, women were much more empathetic. Most people dragging him in the comments were men; Many said he was lying to attention.

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