Star sign compatibility really does matter when dating. I learned it the hard way
My friends also respect this; The second of us is starting to go out with someone new, we always ask questions about their star sign. One was so seriously burned by a Sagittarius that when I told her that I started to get out a few years ago, she shook the list of things I found difficult about her. “He will always look for the next thing and will never want to sit again because it will make him feel trapped and he always needs to feel free,” she told me. “He will barely commit to an appointment, not to mention a relationship. Run a mile. I laughed at the beginning, but a few weeks later, it was proven – we also think that it could be psychic, but that is another article entirely.
I don’t think I am so normative that I will never go out with someone only because of their star sign. And I am aware that many stereotypes around certain astrological signs are ridiculous – see the @Notallgeminis Instagram account, but I think it’s an important thing to ask very early when, let’s face it, we all put our best foot in order to impress the other person. Knowing their star sign could give you a better idea who is really someone and their diet with you. It can also alert you from all potential obstacles, making you better better equipped to manage them when they appear. Cancers, for example, tend to be super sensitive. Being aware of this from the start could help arouse a little more empathy when it becomes apparent.
What bothers me is what to say that all of this to a man will almost always translate into a kind of sneer, generally followed by a sufficient rant on the way it is silly to believe in something as fragile as astrology. It happened almost every time I tried to approach the subject with someone with whom I go out, and even if it can be funny, it is also difficult not to have the impression that there is a little sexism at stake here. Small silly women with their small signs of stupid stars, etc.
It is certainly the dynamic at stake between Chelsea and Rick, anyway, who really seems to hate it most of the time – at one point, he calls it an “idiot”. And after Chelsea insists that the pairs are soul mates, Rick replied iced: “How can we be souls sisters?” Our signs are not even compatible. »I laughed, but I also wanted to kiss Chelsea and tell him that it is perfectly good to believe in astrology, even if the man with whom you come out thinks that it is a nonsense.
